kholoud Ali

Jan. 29, 2021

Have courage, ignite your passion and be kind) It is not a frame design we paint by, rather a lifestyle that we should live by

This episode and article simply illustrates the slogan of the author and life coach Kholoud Ali

And why did I start my slogan of having courage before igniting passion and being kind

In the next two weeks, IN SHA ALLAH , the Podcast will be published and two articles regarding clarification of the rest of the slogan’s sentence

(Have courage, ignite your passion and be kind) It is not a frame design we paint by, rather a life style that we should live by.

The philosopher Aristotle called courage the first virtue, because it enables us to perform all the other virtues, it is one of the most important human virtues, and this is also what I believe in, so I deliberately put it before any other word in the personal slogan.

If we want real change, we must have the credibility to confront ourselves with what we do not like and resent it, and what we really want to fade or change it, and therefore this confrontation requires a certain amount of courage:

Firstly, Courage to self-confess.

For the comfort of your conscience, admit your mistakes and yourself first

2ndly The courage to confront the truth with change, improvement and modification.

Thirdly : the courage to ask questions and search for healing and profound answers .which In turn lead us to achieve our goals, dreams and ambitions.

If you do not have the courage to ask, then what do you think about the answer ?? !!

To have courage means to believe in yourself, in your ability and in your worth, and to assume the responsibility that the Creator placed within you when he made you a successor and prefers you over the rest of the universe's creatures

The Holy Quran Surat Al-Baqarah - Verse 30

 Also in The Holy Quran Surah Al-Ahzab (72) Indeed, we offered the Trust to the heavens and the earth and the mountains, and they declined to bear it and feared it; but man [undertook to] bear it. Indeed, he was unjust and ignorant 

-To take responsibility for commitment and have the right to change and develop To increase reform and goodness .. If you do not want or able to reform, gently, just leave everything as it is, but kindly do not harm or destroy.

Moreover in the Al-Araf (The Heights) The Holy Quran” verse (56) sura al'aeraf: Allah said

And cause not corruption upon the earth after its reformation. And invoke Him in fear and aspiration. Indeed, the mercy of Allah is near to the doers of good.

SO that , When you want to own something, you will have to make a great effort to obtain it, and you do not make a great effort towards something, except because it represents a great value to you, and in your circle of interest, and so after you taste the thrill of the power of owning it, you will never be able to forfeit With it, on the contrary, you will make a greater effort to preserve it and ensure the sustainability of its benefits .. Similarly to the virtue of courage, it will not be given to you, you will have to collect it again and again and continue to acquire possession until you have the empowerment to take greater steps forward and rise to achieve success. Courage is your key to success and your key For great leadership

Stop here and rethink again , do you think courage is an essential tool for rapid self-growth and steady progress???

Let me expose to you some of its benefits

1- Growing fast with confidence

If you never take a risk, you never grow.

You never learn what you’re capable of; never discover the limits you see aren’t real.

Stephen King says, “The scariest moment is always just before you start. After that, things can only get better.”

2- Enjoying New opportunities

-It takes courage to start something new. leverage your skills

It takes courage to take a risk.

But until you have the courage to try something new, you’ll never develop the confidence that comes with experience.

Confidence helps you repeat the success experience you’ve had, but courage makes you unstoppable

Confidence developed and growing after practicing of courage ,after overcoming fear..

3-Becoming decisive

It means; to take action, just do it, move forward – in spite of the fear. When we take action we instantly step forward into growth and make things happen. ...

 The more you can manage to step forward, take action and face your fears, the more courage you will build up; and the bigger the results you will enjoy

4-beating your fears down

We always think bravery is someone who’s not fearful, but it’s the opposite. We all feel frightened of something – bravery is getting over and overcoming that fear to do something anyway.

Acting bravely generally makes us feel good because it involves mastering our emotions against any type of fear of fear such as ;

Fear of rejection or fear of failure or fear of success

Let ask ourselves why we feeling fear?

- As humans, we love the routine, and we tend to fear anything unknown or potentially uncontrollable.

 fear which means f alse e expectations appearing real

-Successful people experience many of the same fears as everyone else. The difference is that successful people don’t let fear robbed their desire of success and reaching  their personal or  professional progress.they don’t give fears the drive empowerment

So now we must learn together how we could eliminate fears whispers

1-When I face fear I began to ask myself what is the worst scenario can happen?/

Then i began to imagine it with all my emotions feelings reactions and so on

Then ask myself again??/is it will kill me/

When the answer surely no, said okay I will play this match

What doesn’t kill you teach you

2-Think about long term lovely scenarios

visualize the details in the most powerful amazing way and become energetic full with enthusiasm

3- I try to prepare myself very well .

Study- read- search, ask expertise, do all my best effort and rely on Gods ability and his selection..Gods plans are always better than us.

He governs all that exists, from the celestial space to the earth (Surat Al-SajdahVerse 5)

4th- Have faith in God

Pray prayers,Pray Duaa and ask God to bless me, read Quraan ,make Sadaka.sharing with charity.

That's what I really make to face my fears.

And remember to Inhale Courage and Exhale Fear

Because fear is False Expectations Appearing Real